Trauma due to death in the family
The following codes may be what you're looking for. But first, run them by the physician. This information was provided by: Ingenix's 2009 Expert
ICD-9-CM for Hospitals - Volumes 1, 2 & 3
1) Code 309.0 - Description: Adjustment disorder with depressed mood - Grief Reaction
2) Code 309.28 - Description: Adjustment disorder with mixed axiety and depressed mood
3) 309.81 - Posttraumatic Stress Disorder - Description: Preoccupation with traumatic events beyond normal experience. i.e., rape, personal assault, combat, natural disasters, accidents, torture precipitate disorder, also recurring flashbacks of trauma; symptoms include difficulty remembering, sleeping, or concentrating, and guilt feelings for surviving.
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