Here's how you'll know that your touch is welcome, says skilled touch expert. Positive Indicators
• Body relaxation (i.e. shoulders drop, head drops forward, hands open, arms or legs uncrossed, mouth opens)
• Tight muscles soften/relax
• Sounds such as groans, "purr"
• Breath release or sigh
• Change in breathing pattern from chest to belly, fast to slow or irregular to regular
• Genuine smile
• Movement toward you
• Eye contact
• Stomach "gurgling"
• Change in skin color (from white to pink)
• Change in body temperature (from cold to warm)
• Emotional release or expression such as laughing, crying, talking
• Falling asleep, snoring
Negative Indicators
(person is not responding well to your attention and/or touch)• Holding or tightening of body parts
• Clenching fists and/or arm crossing
• Stiffening head or neck
• Clenching teeth or jaw
• Holding breath or change in breathing patterns from belly to chest, slow to fast
• Non-verbal "growl"
• Movement away from you
• Physical or verbal agitation Source: Ann Catlin, LMT, OTR www.compassionate-touch.org Handout from a presentation on skilled touch at the November 2009 American Association of Homes & Services for the Aging annual meeting.